Blog-Leslie J Saul-Personal Development Coach

How to Know What She is Thinking

Understanding what turns her on and off and know what she is thinking. Know what she is thinking You see her. She is standing on the other side of the room. She is amazing! Something just seems to be screaming inside of you to go introduce yourself. You work up the courage, and approach her. She sees you. She smiles. So far so good. You think up your best pick up line and let it go. "Baby, you got so many curves, it’s a good thing I corner nicely." Game over. Okay, I'll give you more credit than [...]

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Do You Know Your Wants and Needs?

Do you know the difference between wants and needs? Wants and Needs So you are in a relationship and it just doesn't seem to be working? Are you in between relationships and afraid you won't be able to find someone who can meet your needs? Often, the trouble in our relationships stems from not understanding the fundamental differences between wants and needs. Do you know the difference? If I were to ask you what you need in a relationship in order to thrive, what would you say? Are you sure that you are not confusing needs with wants? [...]

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What Women Really Desire

Top 10 desires a woman wants in a man What Women Really Desire Okay, honestly, trying to list the top ten things a woman wants in a man can be a little like trying to hold smoke in your hand. It's nearly impossible. Ask a guy, and he'll tell you one thing. Ask a woman, and she'll tell you something else, depending on how she is feeling at the time. Still, overall there are a number of things that rise to the surface when it comes to the things women desire most in a man. I would like [...]

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Whose Guilt is it Anyway?

Refusing to Accept the Guilt in an Abusive Relationship Abusers are the lowest form of humanity on the planet. Anyone who would use force to dominate another individual to the point of physical, emotional or sexual abuse is indeed a sad individual. Throughout the years it continues to surprise me how much power these abusive individuals have in the lives of their victims. I believe one of the reasons abusers can control so effectively is their skillful use of guilt in the life of the one they are tormenting. I have seen countless individuals continue to live under a sense [...]

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First Impressions: Casual Dating Or The Girl Of Your Dreams

Casual Dating or The Girl of Your Dreams? In the casual dating scene there is a language used which carries with it the feeling that those involved are not seeking a serious relationship. Here are some examples of that language: Hang-out Hook-up Meet-up These are not necessarily bad terms. In fact, if you are just looking for casual, relatively meaningless short-term relationships then use them. However, if someone is looking for a long-term, caring, committed relationship, these types of words can send the wrong message entirely. Casual Dating Words Matter Look; this is especially important for guys to [...]

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