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Growth – A Bit of Living; A Bit of Growing.

It all adds up to you. Strong foundation and growth As we grow, we change.  We all know that to be true.  We all want growth right? When someone says "You are not the person you used to be." I say, "I certainly hope not!"  To think that I could have lived and loved, and experienced life; without being changed in some way would be, in a word, unacceptable. The Ingredients of Life - Growth Life is made up of experiences.  Those experiences are the ingredients that make us the person we are.  What we experience changes us.  [...]

Cheater! Do Leopards Change Their Spots?

True or False: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater? Of course everyone knows that leopards don't change their spots.  That would be biologically impossible.  However, the cliché was developed to examine whether or not someone who is known for a certain behavior can ever have the capacity to change.  In this case, we are talking about cheaters. There is probably not a more painful experience to have, then to find out that someone you love and trust is cheating on you?.  You may feel, betrayed, violated, and misused.  How could they do that you! Maybe you confront them, and they [...]

Why Do People Lie?

"…All men are liars." Now remember, Pinocchio: be a good boy. And always let your conscience be your guide. ~The Blue Fairy This statement was made by King David, of the nation of Israel, thousands of years ago. Have you ever felt that way? There are times when it just seems like you can't trust anyone. Why do people do it? We know that lying ultimately leads to heartache and destruction, and yet people continue to do so. Lying has become so prevalent in the public square, that it is now almost a joke. We now assume that [...]

The Love You Attract…

Is a mirror of the love you create One of the first rules of leadership is that you attract what you are, not what you want.  In other words, if you want a higher caliber or follower, be a higher caliber leader.  The same holds true in love.  We rarely attract the kind of love we want.  We attract the kind of love we have created, and the kind of love we are willing to give. Develop Your Love Before any relationship is successful, there must be personal development.  In the area of love, this takes introspection and a willingness [...]

4 Signs You Are In An Abusive Relationship

Am I in an abusive relationship? Life is short. Relationships take time.  The question then remains, "When do you know that it is time to walk away from a relationship that is just not working, or not healthy?"  There is no easy answer, but there are some things that can help you decide whether or not a continued investment of time and life is worth it when it comes to your situation. Does the Cost Outweigh the Benefit? Relationships should enrich both parties.  If you find yourself with someone who is high maintenance, with little or no return, then it [...]

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