Blog-Leslie J Saul-Personal Development Coach

6 Simple Tips For Thriving Relationships

Have you ever wondered how so many people have thriving relationships? Thriving Relationships 6 Tips To Help Keep Your Relationships Thriving People talk a lot about happiness. How to find it, how to maintain it, how to cause it in others, etc. As a life coach, I prefer to talk about thriving. When someone is thriving, they may not always be smiling or laughing or having the most fun time ever--they might not even feel "happy," per se--but they are operating at or very near their maximum potential. There may be fear and pain anxiety, but there are zero regrets. The [...]

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3 Ways to Avoid Falling in Love With Illusion

3 Ways to Avoid Falling in Love with Illusion and How to Rescue Yourself Are you in love with an illusion? The typical romantic fairytale story goes something like this: a wonderful and special woman falls in love with a handsome prince. She falls prey to harm and he magically rescues and restores her thereby elevating her to princess status. But this is real life. How many times have we seen a wonderful and special woman fall in love with a “prince” only to discover that she has fallen in love with an illusion and his princely robes [...]

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10 Underlying Obsessive Love Factors

How to Beat Obsessive Love and Set Healthy Relationship Boundaries Vision of Love Falling in love brings a rush of so many feelings. There are times we feel as though we just can’t get enough of that new person in our lives. When we feel as though we cannot function without him or monitor his activities while we are apart, we cross the line into obsessive love. At the end of a relationship, obsessive love is what drives people to stalk his social media, drive by his house or even live in denial of the breakup. A few years [...]

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5 Old School Dating Rules Lead to Online Dating Success

Old School Dating Rules Lead to Online Dating Success Old School Dating Rules Remember the old days when you and a posse of your best girlfriends would put on your heels and go to a bar or disco to meet men? You would position yourself in the center of the room, scan the prospects, choose your targets, and put the old school dating rules to work. In today’s dating world our brains have become so tech-focused that we wonder if we have lost the art of dating and meeting men. We knew some things back in the disco days [...]

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3 Fast Simple Ways to Rage Against Age

Age Is Just a Number: Rage Against “Acting One’s Age” A strange phenomenon happens when you’ve lived for a full five decades. “Silent rules’ begin to be imposed upon your behavior. These affect the way you dress, hairstyle, dance, and even decorate. Younger members of society and even some older ones too might tell you that it doesn’t matter how you dress- that you can ‘get away with’ glaring fashion faux pas because of your age. Jokes about breaking a hip are made whenever you wander out onto the dance floor, and your whole family seems to assume that because [...]

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