Married Women Can Spot the Signs of Great Guys
Dependable, flexible, great guys
Wouldn’t it be awesome if you could know what married women know about finding great guys? Someone once said that love is blind, but marriage restores its sight”. I don’t know if that is exactly true, but I do know that during the dating stage, we have a tendency to put our best foot forward, and after marriage…well…we are less bashful about putting our other foot forward.
Whether you believe it now or not, it takes more than a great personality and smoking hot looks to make a great relationship.
It might surprise you to know that married women often have tremendous insights into what kind of men would make great husbands, or boyfriends. They recognize the attributes that really matter in the long run, and can spot those characteristics in other men. I am going to let you in on those insights. Maybe they will keep you from making a poor choice in the future.
He is There When You Need Him: Dependable
Does that bore you? Well, if you want a long term relationship with a guy, you will want someone who is dependable. When a married woman sees a guy who knows when to show up on time and keep his word, then she knows that he is likely a guy worth having around.
Good looks are important, but if he won’t be there for you when it counts; then marrying Mr “GQ” may not be so hot after a while. A dependable guy will be there because he gave his word. It may sound old fashioned, but you won’t think so when you really need him to show up.
He Shows A Willingness to Accommodate: Flexible
Married women know how important it is for a man to show some flexibility in his day to day life. people who are inflexible are often self-centered. Those kinds of guys don’t make for such great partners. Marriage or any long term relationship requires some give and take. Sometimes it requires changing plans at the last minute to accommodate the other individual. Being flexible in those times and having the ability to “roll with the punches” is absolutely essential to happiness. Don’t believe me? Just ask the next married woman you meet; or if you are brave, ask the next divorced one.
He Rides for the Brand: Loyal
The term “riding for the brand” means that when you take a man’s check, you do his job, and you are loyal. You don’t turn your head every time a better offer comes along. Why is this important? Well, you don’t want a guy who will jump out of your bed and into the bed of the first pretty filly that swishes her tail at him do you? Of course not! Married women know that loyalty is worth its weight in gold. You want a guy who will take your…well…brand, and then stick with you all the way. It’s a bit old fashioned, but this is where the idea of “till death do us part” comes from. It is the idea that we are committed. Married women can spot this quality in a man. Maybe you should ask one to take a look at your guy the next time you are beginning a relationship.
